You know that moment when you’re in your head in bed?
Wondering… is she really into this?
Overthinking… am I lasting long enough?
Feeling like sex is something to perform rather than something to experience?
What if sex wasn’t something you had to think about?
What if you could drop into the moment, feel completely in control of your own pleasure, and effortlessly lead her into hers?
When you learn to truly embody yourself —your entire sex life transforms.
🔥 You stop second-guessing yourself.
🔥 You stop worrying about “lasting long enough.”
🔥 You start feeling more ALIVE—more turned on by life itself.
🔥 You experience connection and pleasure in a way you never have before.
This is about becoming the kind of man who is naturally magnetic in bed.
Embodied knowledge is power. It’s what separates you from the rest. From past you and future you.
This is what we’re going to unlock inside The Pleasure Code.
What You’ll Learn
Over 5 Weeks
This experiential training is designed to shift you from overthinking to full-body confidence.
✅ The 4 Erotic Archetypes – Discover & Master Your Masculine Essence & Sexual Power.
✅ The Science of Arousal & Desire – Understand the nervous system, psychological arousal, and orgasmic mastery.
✅ Mastering Seduction & Foreplay – Why her orgasm starts before you even touch her (how to turn her on without laying a hand on her). Guiding and leading with unconscious competence.
✅ Tantric & Kink Integration – How to create energetic arousal, and masculine grounding, play with power dynamics, and explore deeper levels of intimacy.
✅ Final Week: Integration + Live Q&A – Embodying sexual confidence, lasting transformation, and becoming the lover she never forgets.
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What You Get Inside The Pleasure Code
💥 5 x 60-Minute LIVE Weekly Sessions – Deep, interactive training where you’ll learn, ask questions, and refine your approach.
🎧 Audio Guides & Practices – So you can integrate what you learn immediately. Think meditations, pleasure practices, and guides to practice with your partner (if you're single these are great to have prepared for when you have a partner)
💬 Private Q&A Telegram Support Space – This feature is THE most valuable without a doubt. I only offer this high-touch level of contact to my VIP clients. This is where you get to ask me anything - real-time coaching on current situations in your back pocket!
Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship—this will change everything. There isn’t a man alive who wouldn’t benefit from more knowledge about pleasure and true embodiment.
And if you’ve made it this far, you already know this is for you.
📅 WE START JULY 2025.
This is your moment.
If you’re done feeling like sex is a performance instead of an experience…
If you’re done feeling like she enjoys it but doesn’t crave it…
If you’re done second-guessing whether you really know how to satisfy a woman…
Then this is your invitation. Are you going to step up to the challenge a move into the next version of yourself?
Testimonials
Hi i'm Alejandra Welsh Pena 💕
I’m a certified Sex Educator (ISEE), a graduate of SexTech School 2021, and a VITA™ Tantric Sex, Love & Relationship Coach trained under Layla Martin. But beyond the credentials, I’m here to hold up the mirror that says: You are enough. Just as you are. When men rise in their wholeness, women thrive too—and when both thrive, the possibilities for love, passion, and partnership are limitless.
I do this work because I see too many people trapped in their own cages. Afraid to ask for what they want. Afraid to feel too much. Afraid to be seen. My mission? To wipe shame off the map and make pleasure as natural as breathing. Because life is too short for bad sex, boring connections, and living at half-capacity am I right?!